Of late, everyone’s favourite topic seems to be
infidelity. At coffee meets, book clubs, lunch parties – after a bit of polite
conversation, an awkward pause and then, the inevitable. The latest scoop on
who’s dating who, and who doesn’t know. There’s just no escaping it.
Just the other day, I was hungrily tucking into a
dim sum lunch at a popular Chinese eatery when in walked a couple I knew very
well. Desperately trying not to choke on my sui mai, I downed copious
quantities of Coke in a hurry. You see, the reason for my discomfort was that
“the couple”, in question, were not married to each other and I knew both their
spouses extremely well. They even had two teenagers between them.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m no prude but I wished,
at that very moment, that I was dining elsewhere.
“The couple”, however, did not seem to be bothered.
Politely nodding their heads at us, the two seated themselves in a quiet
corner, as far as possible from the rest of the diners. I marvelled at their
quiet confidence, arrogance almost. Not worried that they would be spotted or
that word would get back to their homes. “Is infidelity on the rise in
Gurgaon?” my friend whispered across the table. “People are so open about these
things these days.”
I shrugged. I really don’t know whether more and
more people are allowing themselves to be carried away by reckless adventures
of the body and soul in the Millenium City. What I do know, for a fact, is that
it’s certainly easier to do so. Have a reckless adventure that is!
A certain man (middle aged by now), wherever he is,
will certainly agree with me.
Fifteen years ago, when I first moved here, all
that Gurgaon had was empty spaces. Wide, open, empty spaces with or without
green. A few condominiums and a handful of shops selling vegetables and
groceries. One or two hole-in-the-joint eateries whose owners actually heaved a
sigh of relief every time you told them you wanted the food packed to take
home. No fancy malls, restaurants, lounges or pubs to hang around in. No place
to have intimate dates, really. Just your own home or outside, in the lap of
Nature.
Every evening I would rush home from work, make a
pot of tea and sit in one of the two balconies that our charming little flat
possessed. With not many buildings blocking my view, on a clear day I could see
right till the airport. There was so much to take in. I loved it.
One such evening as I was getting ready to pour
myself a cuppa, my husband yelled out, asking me to come to the balcony
immediately. Slightly annoyed, I shouted back saying I would, in a minute, as
soon as I had poured a cup for myself. He yelled out again, a strange urgency
in his voice that I hadn’t heard before. “Now!”
I rushed out, my tea forgotten for the moment.
And, I will never forget the sight that greeted my
eyes, for as long as I live!
A man was hanging from the balcony of the flat, adjacent to ours. Yes, you heard me right! He was hanging, clutching onto the railings, for dear life. A sheer drop of ten floors below him. Though he had his back to us, I could make out that he was quite young (possibly in his twenties) and well-dressed. Expensive shirt and trousers.
A man was hanging from the balcony of the flat, adjacent to ours. Yes, you heard me right! He was hanging, clutching onto the railings, for dear life. A sheer drop of ten floors below him. Though he had his back to us, I could make out that he was quite young (possibly in his twenties) and well-dressed. Expensive shirt and trousers.
“Should we tell the security guard?” my husband
whispered, sounding worried. "He may slip and fall." I agreed. I
didn’t want it on our conscience. We rushed down to inform the guard but by the
time we got to the bottom of our block of flats and looked up, the man had
vanished. Into thin air!
Poor, unfortunate soul who had risked his life for
the love of a married woman. Whose husband had walked in on her! Just think,
how much easier their lives might have been, had this romance played out today,
in modern day Gurgaon. So many places to go to. To disappear to. Why, they
might have even been eating dim sums next to me!
Whoever said falling in love was easy. Falling to
your death, however, is another matter!